Welcome back to the community, @kt2630! I think this should be possible. But could you share with the community a sample of your XLSForm with some dummy questions and choices and the requirements you need? The community should then be able to help you out.
It seems like your relevant column doesn’t match with any of your questions, but I think this approach should solve your issue.
Example: I have a text question for asking a name, if a person replies Hakan questions related to Hakan will appear, and if a person replies as Kal_Lam questions related to Kal_Lam will appear.
Can you try this yourself and see if that meets your needs?