Is it possible to delete or add item to kobo select_one or select_multiple dynamically

Is it possible to delete or add item to kobo select_one or select_multiple dynamically on other elements change activities.

For example, i have a select_one name list data (family members) from pull_data. i want to delete a few names from that list depends upon the selection from another select_one (exit member died members) inside a repeat group .

@Lakshmikanthlr, do you mean something like this that has been discussed previously?